Skip to main content

In Search of Good Manners Or The Importance of A Good Conscience

Buckley

Bill Buckley used to say, “The problem with bad manners is that they sometimes lead to murder.”

If Buckley was speaking, as he often did, from a sort of transcendent skepticism, attractive in people with good manners, he never-the-less said the truth. Many murderers, most people reading these lines will have noticed, lack a certain social grace.

They are unacquainted with Kant or other enlightened pre-20th century moral philosophers. The postmoderns, addicted to group-think, usually end up finding Nietzsche less wearing on their frayed nerves.

Kant, modern philosophers tell us, is a deontologist. For Kant, “morality is not defined by the consequences of our actions, our emotions, or an external factor. Morality is defined by duties and one’s action is moral if it is an act motivated by duty.” The moral law proceeds from “the good will” directed to a good end.

Kant summed up his moral law this way: “I am never to act otherwise than so that I could also will that my maxim should become a universal law.” 

Duty, by the way, lies at the opposite pole of self-indulgence.

The postmodern age is no friend of duty or, for that matter, of ethics, which is centered in the concept of duty. One has a religious duty to “do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” People arrange a prison-breakout of such duties by eschewing religion altogether or by becoming what Jacques Maritain calls “practical atheists.”

Politicians, when they are lustily practicing their art, are mostly concerned with their own power positions or, worse, their unending campaigns for reelection. And power, rule by force, has little to do with the moral law, Kant, or ethics. Most murderers have gotten into in the habit of re-defining the moral law as a code of infinitely adjustable personal behavior.

Joseph Stalin, a postmodern-father-figure-mass-murderer, used to say, “One death is a tragedy. A thousand deaths is a statistic.” He subdued Ukraine in 1932-33 by inaugurating a famine he and his henchmen caused that resulted in the death by starvation of upwards of 5-10 million Ukrainians. If Vladimir Putin’s offensive war on Ukraine is to teach us anything at all, it may be that a reanimated post-Stalin Stalinism is by nature un-Kantian precisely because it elevates naked force above ethics.

My own mother and all the males in my extended family, were Kantians. The iron law of the household was: If you strayed from your moral duty – you were given to understand, often and at great length, what that was -- you would very soon face “a higher power,” once he arrived home from work. Both work and moral probity were, for the males and females in my extended family, moral duties like, on a much smaller scale, taking out the garbage, or cleaning your room, or being kind to older people, while being patient with younger people.

Kant’s “good will” is related directly to good manners. Or, if the reader prefers, it flows from good manners in precisely the way the ongoing creation proceeds from the liberating creative idea of the God of Jesus, Moses and Abraham: “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.”

And the Word was Good.

For the past half century here in the United States, we have witnessed an anarchic attack on the foundations of Western culture to which we owe our moral duty. On an ever broadening scale, we owe a moral duty first to ourselves, then to our fathers and mothers, then to our extended family, then to our neighbors, then to our towns, then to our state, then -- up the line and as far away as Oz -- to our nation. All these institutions have come under a sustained attack by moral anarchists for whom duty is an ethical fiction.

Duties imply obligations and a moral accounting. To put it in other words, conscience is a duty director. The postmodern era, which shrinks at any idea of an outward moral obligation, pretty much in the way the Devil shrivels to dust when aspersed with Holy Water, is no friend to conscience or a correcting guilt.

We have banished guilt and the pangs of conscience, and that is why bad manners lead so effortlessly to the murder of virtue, to the murder of the Good, and to the murders of fatherless, 14-year-old African American urban gangsters by other 14-year-old urban gangsters.

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

The PURA soap opera continues in Connecticut: Business eyeing the exit signs

The trouble at PURA and the two energy companies it oversees began – ages ago, it now seems – with the elevation of Marissa Gillett to the chairpersonship of Connecticut’s Public Utilities Regulation Authority.   Connecticut Commentary has previously weighed in on the controversy: PURA Pulls The Plug on November 20, 2019; The High Cost of Energy, Three Strikes and You’re Out? on December 21, 2024; PURA Head Butts the Economic Marketplace on January 3, 2025; Lamont Surprised at Suit Brought Against PURA on February 3, 2025; and Lamont’s Pillow Talk on February 22, 2025:   The melodrama full of pratfalls continues to unfold awkwardly.   It should come as no surprise that Gillett has changed the nature and practice of the state agency. She has targeted two of Connecticut’s energy facilitators – Eversource and Avangrid -- as having in the past overcharged the state for services rendered. Thanks to the Democrat controlled General Assembly, Connecticut is no l...

The Murphy Thingy

It’s the New York Post , and so there are pictures. One shows Connecticut Senator Chris Murphy canoodling with “Courier Newsroom publisher Tara McGowan, 39, last Monday by the bar at the Red Hen, located just one mile north of Capitol Hill.”   The canoodle occurred one day or night prior to Murphy’s well-advertised absence from President Donald Trump’s recent Joint Address to Congress.   Murphy has said attendance at what was essentially a “campaign rally” involving the whole U.S. Congress – though Democrat congresspersons signaled their displeasure at the event by stonily sitting on their hands during the applause lines – was inconsistent with his dignity as a significant part of the permanent opposition to Trump.   Reaching for his moral Glock Murphy recently told the Hartford Courant that Democrat Party opposition to President Donald Trump should be unrelenting and unforgiving: “I think people won’t trust you if you run a campaign saying that if Donald Trump is ...

Lamont Surprised at Suit Brought Against PURA

Marissa P. Gillett, the state's chief utility regulator, watches Gov. Ned Lamont field questions about a new approach to regulation in April 2023. Credit: MARK PAZNIOKAS / CTMIRROR.ORG Concerning a suit brought by Eversource and Avangrid, Connecticut’s energy delivery agents, against Connecticut’s Public Utility Regulatory Agency (PURA), Governor Ned Lamont surprised most of the state’s political watchers by affecting surprise.   “Look,” Lamont told a Hartford Courant reporter shortly after the suit was filed, “I think it is incredibly unhelpful,” Lamont said. “Everyone is getting mad at the umpires.   Eversource is not getting everything they want and they are bringing suit. It was a surprise to me. Nobody notified me. I think we have to do a better job of working together.”   Lamont’s claim is far less plausible than the legal claim made by Eversource and Avangrid. The contretemps between Connecticut’s energy distributors and Marissa Gillett , Gov. Ned Lamont’s ...